How to identify energy vampires at work

For a person near an energy vampire, the problem is that it is the object of the passive energy attacks, which is that it is emotionally draining. The words that man says is a vampire, one way or another contradict his actual behavior.

For example, an employee who tells you he will help you in your work, you need to provide the authorities in 2 days, but avoid phone calls and conversations, showing passive aggression. He said he will help you, but you can't be with him any way to contact you, hoping for his help, lay their business before the deadline. He said "Yes" and therefore makes you sad and upset that it is unavailable for you. Perhaps people said "Yes" because she can't say no or hurt you, or he wanted to be a member of the team. Mouth he says Yes, but his behavior is telling you the truth. The truth is that he is not going to help you or perhaps he thought that might help, but deep down he really didn't want to help you. Just at that moment, it was easier to say "Yes".

Your energy is getting low, and it sucks when you are trying to contact that person. At the same time you are analyzing, why is he not answering your calls. For example, you start to worry that he had an accident or it offended you, or he just forgot. You spend all kinds of time and energy trying to figure out what's going on with this man, and why he ceased to communicate with you. After the analysis, you open an unpleasant truth, which is that he's avoiding you because he doesn't want to help you. He said "Yes" when you really meant "no."

When it comes to passive aggression, people-vampires, then you have an unpleasant feeling and even anger. In the end you understand and feel what this man is eating you energy. But fortunately, there are ways to protect people like That.

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