Jealousy - why it can destroy relationships

1 of the qualities, which in any relationship there are problems and issues, it is jealousy. The woman will not be able to recognize himself jealous, but only 1 opinion men to another individual and jealousy erupts clear fire in his eyes, which immediately displayed on the relationships of the couples.

Reunifica first prove his behavior by saying that they love more, and partner for catalyst emotions needed someone else. But is it really? In fact, if we become jealous of their own loved one simply because we love him?

Significant research psychoanalysts confirm that jealousy arises not from scratch, but her roots come from childhood. Most often jealous young women are just after those factors, when in childhood they were placed with someone in the comparison. Especially on self-esteem hits a factor when parents who are for us standing right in the childhood saying, "Behold, the girl is good, it's a pity that you're my kind of talent. And Nastya. What obedient. Lucky her parents."

Just these words have their own negative results, which we feel in adult life. We begin to compare with anyone, try to be better than someone, and not what we do in yesterday. Especially painful for us becomes, if our favorite people compare us to someone else. Here arises the moment, "jealousy", which is so much eats us from the inside.

In a moment of jealousy rather difficult to calm down, collect my thoughts and common sense to assess the situation. Directly because such outbursts of jealousy, which begets anger, can lead not only to a scandal, but to the breakdown of the relationship.

Representatives of the stronger sex usually don't like when young women they are jealous. From time to time they make themselves to be jealous, to raise their self-esteem. But systematically control, which only creates another scandals, anything excellent will not.

Specifically, in consequence, do not just shoot from the hip. You need to take time out and understand to start within yourself. Why you're jealous of your own beloved? What was the basis? What exactly is causing the wobble? This will allow, at least not to harm your relationship will give you time to cool and quench the feeling of jealousy, which nearly destroyed your love.

It is difficult to say whether you can forgive infidelity. But on this topic we will talk also, but still less than thou envious against unreasonable and enjoy your own relationship!

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