Recently sexologists allocate another orientation besides heterosexual and bisexual - asexual. That is, one that has no relation to sex. Just didn't want him.
Hard to believe, but statistics say the number of sexually indifferent inhabitants of our planet is increasing every year. Try to understand what this people are and where they came from.
Asexual either, as they are called, generation X is people who calmly dispense with intimate pleasures. They don't need the soft touches and not suffer when their 2nd half far. Often they do not see the need to have a partner. These people well alone.
Where did they come from?
Scientists began to use the term "asexuality" even in 60-ies. In other words were asexual all the time, but earlier people did not speak so openly about sex, therefore those who do not excite Nude body, was silent about his own amazingness.
In asexual there is no physiological abnormalities, they are no different from adherents of traditional orientation or sexual minorities. Them just hot porn. And chest. And nothing at all.
Feeling like not all asexual have brought families and lived in marriage only because I need it. But duty was duty directly.
Times have changed and now those who don't want sex ready to announce it publicly. And the impression that free sex from men arose only at the moment.
Sociologists divide adherents of generation X into 4 groups.
They are called loners. These are people who have sex, but do not want to start a family. They are not interested in strong ties and close ties. In extreme cases, the singletons can have a baby for yourself. But still more likely they get a dog.
These people compromise on sex and family in the name of work. They never have time for intimate communication, Dating, and the rest of the rubbish. For the workaholic important career growth and they are not afraid to stay alone. Sometimes 2 people of such type can form a Duo, but not because of the fun and enjoyable moments together. Workaholics Dating someone only to maintain the image.
Intellectual leaders, the hope of civilization, which, unfortunately, will not leave after itself posterity. They happily flit about the place, I love to learn and travel. "Butterflies" are constantly changing occupation, play sports, play musical instruments, buy all the newest and best. They don't have enough energy and time for sex. And, therefore, it is not included in their range of interests.
Komsomolskaya Pravda, athlete and simply beauty, which is in no way interested in men and all that is connected with them. They are very proud to become dependent on carnal pleasures. Usually, this stylish feminists, vegetarians, fans of yoga and parties. They believe that friends will support you better than family, and are convinced that men will never understand.
Why are they doing this?
Generation X recognizes that abstaining from sex is their informed choice. The asexual is really not born, they become. In fact it is not a voluntary choice, but a result of the severe psychological difficulties.
Prerequisite asexuality could be 1 traumatic sexual experience or a bad attempt at family life. If 1 of the spouses is not satisfied with second as a lover, he can absolutely lose the desire to have sex. Anytime and with anyone.
So, many of the fairer sex even after a large number of years after divorce left alone and not want to have any intimate connection with any of the new people.
Develops asexuality and as a result of promiscuity. Early tried all, people quickly lose enthusiasm for sex. Therefore, these passionate young women often young to 30 years are converted into freedom-loving feminist and workaholic with a complete aversion to intima.
Another reason for asexuality - excessive promotion of sex on TV, in publications and magazines. Annoying recommendations, where, with whom, how and when to have sex, leave no room for their own imagination and experiences. There is a desire to resist Intrusive invasion into the intimate life. Porn ceases to excite and desire to hide in the cocoon of warmth and comfort. Preferably away from the rough and dirty world of sex.
On occasion the world, against his will, become even at a young age. Base can serve as the divorce of parents, rude attitude of the father to the mother, or overly harsh parenting.
Specialists in psychology believe that to life in splendid isolation gravitate to people who failed to grow up. In most cases, they grew up in comfort, but they do not want nor have anyone to care about.
In keeping pace with time the society popular to be forever young, successful, have a fine house and a lot of wandering. Family and related responsibilities eat youth, distract from the success of the children overshadow the exterior design and resort recreation. Therefore, on a subconscious level, more and more people on the planet willing in good faith to deny sex to one day not to fall into the cage of family life.