Specialist in psychology Andrew Marshall, who is engaged in family therapy for 30 years found the cause of male adultery and came to the conclusion that unfaithful husbands can understand and forgive.
"Believe me, during my own practice I have seen many. Not many representatives of the stronger sex physically cheating spouses. Once I had a lady in her eighth month of pregnancy and said that her husband was addicted to Internet porn, and she considers this a betrayal. Another of the fairer sex made me an unimaginable situation that her husband has a mistress in almost every country of the world - his work involves traveling. But I helped every appealing to me to save the marriage".
In many infidelities, according to the expert, it is our fault ladies: "I can't count the representatives of the stronger sex, who ceased to consider themselves a real part of the family. Especially often it happens after the baby is born. Even the most perfect father can't handle the feeling of uselessness: because the fairer sex is constantly "knows everything better than you, she's a mom". Many representatives of the stronger sex just want to feel their own importance and find every opportunity: sincere correspondence in chat rooms, fleeting friendships with young women younger and other addictions".
Andrew told the Daily Mail that encourages the fairer sex, who knew about the cheating spouse after having children, to look for mistakes in their behavior.
There is also 1 main point. To save the marriage and prevent infidelity loved one, you should be sensitive to the sexual desires of their own men, the expert believes. "If you deny your representative of the stronger sex to satisfy his fantasies in the bedroom, ashamed of something, laughed of his sentence or definitely expressing indignation at the action, then wait for the news about the change, is pre-empted specialist in psychology. Sex is important to relax not only physically, but also emotionally. You have to respect the desires of each other and be ready to satisfy them".
Giving advice to ladies who have not been faithful spouses, the psychologist reported that to lay the blame for the betrayal completely on my own partner is not necessary: "Try not to blame my own partner of all mortal sins, since the family is a single organism where all parts must exist in harmony. If the representative of the stronger sex something loses, try to look for the cause inside himself. When you find her, you will be able to speak about forgiveness."
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