When we are 1 year live together with the loved one, when it's time to romantic love, unfortunately, left behind, begins a time when we pay attention that our sex life has changed.

Mutual desire begins to fade. Our erotic needs are moving in a different form. Though the partner as before sexually interesting for us, the frequency of sex is reduced and together with it the need for psychological intimacy with a partner ceases to be so acute.

When the relationship goes erotica?

When this happens, our natural erotic impulses and passion gradually leave the relationship. Because erotica lies in the very nature of man, these needs must be some way out, they can't just disappear. When we do not meet their own desires, not working on improving your sexual life, overcoming problems, we will reimburse your own sexual frustration something else, and it may cause harm to the relationship. In reality, we can satisfy your own erotic need, when we understand what the root of the problem and how together with your partner can decide her to feel back to the erotic and sexual ripple.

As discussed above, the more reliable your Union, the more likely it is that you ignore erotic need each other. This does not mean the failure of the relationship, and may simply indicate that you care about their safety, but forgot equally important, erotic component.

There are several methods to fix it. The problem that in this point will be discussed, can shed light on the reasons why we suppress their own nature erotic needs or compensate own dissatisfaction separately from the other side. Read and figure out if this applies to your pair.

The complex Madonna - whore

The complex Madonna-whore contained in the identification of women with a specific image or part of her body, with all this very lady like a real, whole person is not perceived. In American
South American culture women are divided into "Madonna" and the harlots.

This view originates in the Bible, and the sample is similar bifurcation serve Mary Magdalene, and Mary. When the light emerges baby, lady becomes a mother, which is the emblem of virtues and hassle associated with the integrity and purity.

From time to time such a view favorite as mother causes inconvenience for a man to perceive it as sexually attractive fairer sex, which she was for it before. With the birth of a child the representative of strong sex begins to consider a private partner to start as a mother, and not as an object of sexual desire.

In South American culture lady is perceived as "bad girl", if it shows the desire to have sex, and how "perfect girl", if it does not show similar desires. Many women do not perceive their own sexuality as something complete, as the sex they have is associated with something "bad". To be a mother and to desire sex is 2 things, which sometimes give them psychological discomfort. In consequence ladies put data conflicting needs in fictional cells, in other words, hide your own erotic needs in the case, and store it deep inside until that time, "until the children grow up". It is not easy to be a mother and sexual lady in the same time: day to cook for children macaroni and cheese, and in the evening to go up and to stand before her husband in sexual belt stockings.

When the representative of strong sex sees the private partner, the mother of their own baby, and not sexual fairer sex, desire to have it in him disappears. In his own mind the representative of the stronger sex are often torn between sexual desire and the clean, pure way, wife, mother, which was formed in his head.
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