Truth and fiction about "life after man

What do you feel when you think of divorce? The longing for the past? Or the freedom and satisfaction of the future? Whichever option you choose, don't kid yourself - divorce is not easy. You feel frustrated, havoc - but even this is absolutely normal feelings!

But what about the new relationship? Is it possible to build them, and how long after divorce to start? Only you can answer yourself this question. While we will discuss the key legends and the difficulties associated with relationships after divorce.

- It is necessary to wait for a certain amount of time before again to meet with the representatives of the stronger sex.

In fact it all depends on your internal experiences. Take 1 day or 1 year, the main thing is to keep you comfortable.

- Quite difficult latest build relationships with the children. It is difficult that they saw you with the new representative of the stronger sex.

Children are satisfaction with life, and not a stone on the neck. The main thing - give well as lots of love, and be honest with them, and then they will understand, maybe not immediately, but will understand.

- With a new man you can't talk about a former spouse.

Why not? It was a significant part of your life for many years - it is difficult to expect that you're -- you'll just write it from memory. Hard and stupid :-)

How to prepare yourself mentally for a new relationship and through painful step after divorce?

- Open yourself re: new Hobbies, new outfit, journey, fear not to indulge in your favorite!

"You go through the healing process is painful, but not "obolev" you will not be able to move on. MyPlace all the tears and not to hold back feelings. Allow yourself the pain, but not "hang" for a long time in this state.

- Be careful to children - it is also not easy, they are experiencing stress. Excellent'd sit down and all together to talk, to share their own experiences and feelings, that you will bring.

- Let go of your past. Accept and let go, it's extremely important. Sorry mate, forgive yourself. Just go with the idea that you are not more, but it's not bad, life does not end here!

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