More and more inhabitants of our planet like to live in a civil marriage, believing this form of life together is more suitable. Although in the future it is detrimental effect on family life.
As it turned out, living together before marriage affects the relationship of lovers. Experts in psychology convinced that this cohabitation increases the risk of divorce in the future. They also show that the presence of joint experience of living before marriage then leads to dissatisfaction with family life.
Research scientific workers showed that couples who live together before the registration of the relationship, then divorced more frequently than those who started to live together only after the wedding.
In-1-x, few civil pair reach the Registrar.
The 2 couples living up to the wedding in a civil marriage, have denied a romantic thrill and illusions relatively partner, and therefore, they do not know how marriage can improve (or just change) their relationship.
In addition, such couples more often divorced due to the lack of hope for change, or when a link on the side.
This statistic recognize study of South American researchers, vyyasnila that people, who are living together before he decided to get married, demonstrate greater susceptibility to breakdown of relations. Almost 20% of these couples see divorce as a logical development. It is twice more in comparison with those pairs that until the wedding did not conduct joint household.
The researchers also analyzed the reasons why couples decide to live in a civil marriage. The main pretext for the bulk couples to live together was the need to spend more time with each other. The 2nd most popular reason is convenience and savings of joint management and life. The third is the cohabitation in order to verify relations. Usually, it is connected with the existing difficulties in them. If one feels the need to examine the relationship, it means that he already understands that something might go wrong in the long term.
And the most common explanation for this paradox is the difference in use. From living men expect more sex, and the lady - love.
But you cannot categorically deny cohabitation. Many couples who lived together without a specific goal to create a family, later he managed to build it. What really is the cohabitation? Test feelings before marriage either still in a divorce after marriage? Certainly, it is ideal represent those who it was.
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