Believe that only couples who constantly argue may be on the verge of divorce? As it turned out, swearing and conflicts definitely not the main cause family disorders.
According to the results of a new survey, a lot more spouses grow cold to each other the result of boredom, of life and inability to settle problems together.
Only 9 percent of respondents in the new poll said the cause of their divorce was repeated strife
According to reliable information of the survey results cited by The Sunday Times, more than 60 percent of divorced couples just a year before the breakup were quite happy together. Abuse and incidents that lasted for a long time, he called the circumstances of the break only 9 percent of respondents.
As specialists declare psychology as a rule the couple that well together, divorced, unable to withstand unexpected financial difficulties, pressure from family members or some other tensions. Probably, people so want to "escape" from the relationship, not realizing that married life is not constantly to be equally smooth and stable.
"Nobody ever said that family life is easy. My own marriage from time to time literally crumbling before my eyes - I think. But you must listen to the partner and be able to find compromises," says researcher Harry Benson.
As stated by Benson, the results of the study suggest that most divorces can be prevented. "It is necessary to abstract from consumer relations in the spirit of "if it's hard, I better recant". Strong relationships require work", - the expert believes.
Note that scientists recommend for the sake of a relationship as often as possible to thank own partner. Not so long ago the staff of one of the American institutions surveyed more than 4 hundred being legally married couples and found out that the lovers are constantly talking to each other "thank you", I feel happier in the relationship.