The `Love Story` singer - who has previously dated Joe Jonas and Taylor Lautner - says getting married isn’t always for everyone and would rather have a healthy and committed relationship. She said: "I`ve seen marriages be really great, and I`ve seen them be not so great. I`ve seen that people have to really work through love and fight for it, and I`ve been in relationships where you have to fight for it. And is it worth it? "I don`t think that love can possibly be easy all the time, in fact, most of the time it`s going to be hard. I think it`s important to try to find someone who`s going to tell you, `This is worth it,` when you`re scared, and tell you, `I`m never leaving you,` when you`re doubting it. I think that`s the most important thing." As well as having a good relationship with a man, the 20-year-old beauty is also keen to remain close to her fans. She told Parade magazine: "I love hugging people. I still hug everybody in my meet-and-greet lines. We did a 14-hour meet and greet, and I gave out so many hugs and got kind words from people. You hear so many stories of what your music has done for people and that`s just wonderful."