The Oscar winning `Monster` actress is pleased about a vote in New York which allows same sex couples to marry, she doesn`t believe the US government is doing enough, as it is still banned in most states. She said: "It`s a divine right and when government starts to tell us who can love and what is good love, I do have a problem with that. "I have a problem with the fact that our government hasn`t stepped up enough to make this federal, to make this legal." South Africa born Charlize - who split with long term partner Stuart Townsend last year - enjoys being in a secure, long term relationship but personally sees no reason to have a marriage ceremony for herself. Speaking on TV show `Piers Morgan Tonight`, she added: "I really want for myself a long-term relationship. And I have been in long-term relationships. "That`s the kind of union that I want. The actual ceremony is not something that is important to me-but I see the importance for other people."