The 44-year-old singer is happy and committed in her relationship with Andres Velencoso - who she has been dating since 2008 - but insists making their union official isn`t important as she would feel "strangled". She said: "Being pigeonholed or labelled this and that is something I`ve always felt strangled by. So I`m committed in my relationship, absolutely, and that`s not to say I will never get married but I need to know I can step outside this room. "I won`t, but I do need to know that mentally I have space and freedom. Others would want to know they had those strong foundations but I`m just a different make-up I guess." The `Spinning Around` hitmaker believes she is a "nightmare" to date because of the attention she brings. She told Style magazine: "Not being bothered - that`s brilliant. That`s how I get my kicks. "Honestly, I think it would be a nightmare going out with me. Just the circus around me. It comes with a lot of difficulties." Kylie particularly enjoys visiting Andres` family in Spain because life is so peaceful there. She said: "I love it there as I literally have nothing to do and I really get taken care of. "Andres` father goes and buys fresh food, as it`s all about eating and cooking, or Andres and I will take little drives to restaurants."