As it turned out, in our mystic love story in many respects depends on our internal attitude and perception of themselves and others. Yes-Yes! That, as they say, it is logical: if you are in harmony with yourself, and with a partner you will be simple and, accordingly, the romance and harmony of the relationship goes with it. Although what properties and state of the soul must develop, so to say, "to achieve Zen" in the relationship? 1. Inner confidence. This is extremely important and very attractive to the opposite sex. When you are confident, relaxed and calm, they swarm like bees to honey. And for this confidence simply... Adore and accept yourself for who you are! Not to fidget nervously, like, Oh, hairstyle has deteriorated, ink flowed or clue on the tights, and specifically to realize you're gorgeous. Under all circumstances. 2. Relaxation and peace. "Everything goes" - says a popular wisdom. "Everything that happens is not good and not bad" - echoed her different. One other words, just relax! Lack of aggression and a genuine desire for peace in the world is so sexy! 3. Conveniently = sexy. The main thing is not worn and how to wear. Thus saith 1 my friend. Just paraphrase: you probably comfortable in your body, your apartment, the clothes that you wear in your life in General! And then you will radiate the beauty of almost constantly, what would you do. 4. Art and creativity. The relationship rather not significantly "stagnant". And bolder " bring them in "flavor"! Write him a love letter... Lipstick on the mirror in the bathroom! Or send your photo in an intimate clothes in the middle of the working day, so that he could not wait for the evening. These and other small surprises and pleasant feed relations as air. 5. Sincerity. Almost always remain themselves. Taking into account past 4 PT it will strengthen your relationship. Bravely, but delicately claim personal impressions, preferences in bed and experiences. Only speak from himself and of themselves, do not allow yourself to sink to the level of the charges. 6. Easy, positive and humorous attitude. Take cynicism and decadent mood! Open yourself for positive! Try, no matter what happens, to treat everything with humor (even learn to make fun of you). And only by removing all negative, you will open your loved all the beauty of the real - and mystique to live forever in your relationship.