We don't want to be in this situation, though rightly realize that, probably, each among us at least once visited it. He left you, unforeseen and cruel. Or, maybe you have long suspected that he would do it, but we all hoped that he would reconsider. It hurts too much and you must learn to live again later, enjoy life and stop loving him and tormented him. The mission is not easy, why. But nothing is impossible! - Think, why everything happened as it happened. Try to disable emotions, turn your head and think: is there so tragic? Whether the future of your relationship? Why he did that? Perhaps I should tell him thanks for what he has given you the chance to start from the beginning? - Allow yourself plenty to cry. Let the heart be oboleti and eyes cry all the tears. Not zatsiklivaytes this step, but do not try silently "run" it. Not sammalkivi sadness and pain, otherwise they won't let you in peace to live in the future and serenely to build a new relationship. - Don't talk with him. Well, that's not communicate. At least some time. We know you want to see and hear it, but it will only complicate your situation and will bring unnecessary pain and suffering. As the saying goes, "out of sight, out of mind". - Focus on yourself. This is the best time to remember in the end of himself loved. Various SPA, a change of style, clothes, fitness - in short, all that you had saved so much time! Enjoy life, you at the moment it is just necessary! - Set ourselves new goals. Well, or focus on achieving old. For example, you wanted to become his wife and mother of his children? It's time to think about a career in which you long ago put an end! Well, either on a trip to a far country, or to exotic resorts! - Start again to meet men. Of course, not immediately. But after going through all the stages that we have outlined above, you will understand that it is ready to open for a new relationship with a new person. Yes, you have experienced the pain, but it only confirms that you deserve happiness and love!