People who are married or just in a serious relationship, healthier, wealthier and happier. So why 60% of all marriages end in divorce? Why the divorce rate is increasing? And why fewer inhabitants of our planet are formalizing their own relations?
Answers to these questions can be a lot, but the main reason is simple: just to lose love, but few understand how to save.
A strong and healthy relationship is 1 of the main ingredients of a successful life for men and women. They prolong life , significantly increase physical and emotional health, make people happy, reducing the degree of depression, guarantee protection from sexually transmitted diseases.
Surprisingly, most people who file for divorce, not aware of what is really in their relationship. The bulk of couples do not promptly seek professional support when their relationship is in danger. And by the time they realize that the "smell of fried", it's too late.
Regardless, are you either already married, there is almost no reason to put up with bad relations. Instead of trying to adjust partner, try to understand inside. Ask the question, "Maybe the reason in me? What have I done to save our relationship?".
On this subject, it is possible to take into account the fact that the amount of change in the secondary marriages twice higher than among couples in the first marriage.
Getting rid of a private partner, you do not get rid of the problem, because half the problem remains with you. You can "get out" of marriage, but you can't run away from yourself! Instead of blaming each other, the couple must learn to work in a team, after matches the character and the struggle for leadership.
To arrange this, you need to create such relations, in which both of you will be able to Express their own needs and fears and overcome conflict. Relationships break up because people don't understand how to check each other (which creates frustration and anger). And because the solution is on the surface! Just don't let each other reason for mutual insults and recovery.
One of the greatest causes of anger between people is the lack of understanding. Representatives of the stronger sex and ladies have different strengths and weaknesses, different methods of expression, but also a lot of "childish complexes", from which we want to get rid of. We can be absolutely different, but become quite similar when it comes to our needs for love and intimacy. We only manifested itself in different ways.
Stop doing that selfishly think is right and true, you better make something that can help build and maintain relationships! The vast majority relations can and should be saved.