You are overwhelmed with you hunt to about your happiness learned all! But being at the peak of euphoria, we should try not to make mistakes. Read about 5 "NO" at the beginning of the relationship. If you violate these rules, you can lose its new-found love.
Here are the rules:
1. Not znakomi own guy with his own family too early
Acquaintance your guy with your parents is a big step in a relationship. Whether he is ready to step up to a higher rung of your relationship? At least, you should be sure of the depth of emotion your guy. Otherwise you may be caught between a rock (family) and a hard place (your young man).
2. Do not expect, that your young man is able to read your mind
If you barely know, to guess with a gift - a great success. If you do not want to be disappointed gift, Namedni young man that you desire. Gift in the form of jewelry or a day at the Spa, is, of course, a win-win situation, but when it comes to the art of perfume or modern gadgets, better still, to err. If you are ashamed to do hints, enlist the support of friends.
3. Respect the habits and holidays of a young man
Every family has its own special reception to celebrate the festivals. Unusually, if you belong to a different religious denomination, social groups or nationalities. If you have invited to your relatives young man on a holiday, make every effort to demonstrate its respect and understand the traditions with which you are facing. Call on the help of his young person and don't be shy to ask him questions, to understand what is happening.
4. Do not give gifts with a hidden meaning
Want your representative of strong sex dressed better? And he doesn't want to change your own closet? You irritate his worn jeans and faded shirt? Try to discuss it openly. But not dari clothes that don't quite fit his style. The devil is in how you perceive the young man your hint. Here are formed, usually 2 variants of perception. Excellent is thy gift interpreted as: "Your style is good, but you will look in a new outfit even better!" Bad interpretation: "I'm ashamed of you before the people, and I may have to part with you, if you begin to dress better." Needless to take such a risk?!
5. Don't let fresh relationship to radically change your life rate
Having plunged headlong into the latest cycle of relationship (gifts, travel, friendly parties), accelerated the pace and already busy lives. Inspired by each other and headlong rushing for a new life, you can quietly losing old friends, to enter into confrontation with relatives and colleagues. They worked with us in the "past" more serene life. And finally, tired, and floated down the tempo, you can be far ahead, but lonely.
Like no matter what, try to learn from the mistakes of others. As the cost of your mistake - it's the loss of a loved one.
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